| # | Activity | Experience Before |
Giver/Receiver | Willingness |
Notes & Nuances |
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| 1 | Abrasion | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 2 | Age play | no | top | no |
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| 3 | Anal sex | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 4 | Anal plugs (small) | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 5 | Anal plugs (large) | yes | bottom | 3 |
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| 6 | Anal plug (public, under clothes) | yes | bottom | 3 |
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| 7 | Animal roles | yes | bottom | 2 | I'll be your kittycat
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| 8 | Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) | yes | bottom | 4 |
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| 9 | Aromas | no | top | 0 |
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| 10 | Asphyxiation | yes | bottom | 3 |
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| 11 | Auctioned for charity | no | bottom | 5 | If it's for charity, sure.
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| 12 | Ball stretching | yes | top | 3 | I'll stretch yours, you can't stretch mine
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| 13 | Bathroom use control | yes | top | 2 |
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| 14 | Beastiality | no | top | no |
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| 15 | Beating (soft) | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 16 | Beating (hard) | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 17 | Blindfolds | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 18 | Being serviced (sexual) | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 19 | Being bitten | yes | bottom | 5 | And I'll bite back
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| 20 | Boot worship | no | top | 3 | Worship me
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| 21 | Bondage (light) | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 22 | Bondage (heavy) | no | bottom | 5 | I'll also tie you up
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| 23 | Bondage (multi-day) | no | bottom | 5 | I'll also tie you up
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| 24 | Bondage (public, under clothing) | no | bottom | 5 | I'll also tie you up
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| 25 | Branding | no | top | no |
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| 26 | Breast/chest bondage | yes | top | 5 | You'll find it hard to bind mine
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| 27 | Breast whipping | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 28 | Breath control | yes | bottom | 3 |
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| 29 | Brown showers (scat) | no | top | no |
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| 30 | Bruises | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 31 | Cages (locked inside of) | yes | top | 2 |
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| 32 | Caning | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 33 | Castration fantasy | no | top | 0 |
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| 34 | Catheterization | no | top | 0 |
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| 35 | Cattle prod (electrical toy) | no | top | 0 |
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| 36 | Cells/Closets (locked inside of) | no | top | 2 |
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| 37 | Chains | yes | bottom | 5 | I'll also tie you up
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| 38 | Chamber-pot use | no | top | 0 |
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| 39 | Chastity belts (short term) | no | top | 0 |
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| 40 | Chastity belts (multi-day) | no | top | 0 |
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| 41 | Chauffeuring (driving) | no | top | 0 |
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| 42 | Choking | yes | bottom | 3 |
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| 43 | Chores (domestic service) | yes | top | 4 |
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| 44 | Clothespins | yes | top | 4 |
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| 45 | Cock rings/straps | yes | top | 5 |
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| 46 | Cock worship | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 47 | Collars (worn in private) | yes | top | 5 | If I'm wearing the collar, you better put a leash on me
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| 48 | Collars (worn in public) | yes | top | 5 |
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| 49 | Competitions (with other Subs) | yes | top | 5 |
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| 50 | Corsets (wearing casually) | yes | top | 5 |
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| 51 | Corsets (trained waist reduction) | no | top | 0 |
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| 52 | Cross-dressing | no | top | 0 |
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| 53 | Cuffs (leather) | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 54 | Cuffs (metal) | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 55 | Cutting | yes | top | 3 |
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| 56 | Diapers (wearing) | no | top | 0 |
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| 57 | Diapers (wetting) | no | top | 0 |
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| 58 | Diapers (soiling) | no | top | 0 |
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| 59 | Dilation | no | top | 0 |
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| 60 | Dildoes | yes | top | 5 |
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| 61 | Double penetration | no | top | 0 |
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| 62 | Electricity | no | top | 0 |
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| 63 | Enemas (for cleansing) | no | top | 0 |
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| 64 | Enemas (retention/punishment) | no | top | 0 |
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| 65 | Enforced chastity | no | top | 0 |
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| 66 | Erotic dance (for audience) | no | bottom | 3 |
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| 67 | Examinations (physical) | no | bottom | 3 |
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| 68 | Exercise (forced/required) | no | top | 0 |
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| 69 | Exhibitionism (friends) | yes | bottom | 4 | I'll also order this
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| 70 | Exhibitionism (strangers) | yes | bottom | 4 |
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| 71 | Eye contact restrictions | yes | top | 5 |
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| 72 | Face slapping | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 73 | Fantasy abandonment | yes | top | 3 |
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| 74 | Fantasy rape | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 75 | Fantasy gang-rape | no | bottom | 5 |
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| 76 | Fear (being scared) | no | top | 4 |
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| 77 | Fisting (anal) | no | top | 0 |
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| 78 | Fisting (vaginal) | no | bottom | 2 |
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| 79 | Flame play | no | top | 3 |
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| 80 | Following orders | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 81 | Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...) | no | top | 4 |
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| 82 | Foot worship | no | top | 0 |
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| 83 | Forced bedwetting | no | top | 0 |
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| 84 | Forced dressing | no | top | 0 |
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| 85 | Forced eating | no | top | 0 |
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| 86 | Forced homosexuality | no | top | 0 |
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| 87 | Forced heterosexuality | no | top | 0 |
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| 88 | Forced masturbation | yes | top | 3 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 89 | Forced nudity (private) | yes | bottom | 3 |
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| 90 | Forced nudity (around others) | yes | bottom | 4 |
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| 91 | Forced servitude | no | top | 4 |
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| 92 | Forced smoking | no | top | 0 |
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| 93 | Full head hoods | no | top | 0 |
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| 94 | Gags (cloth) | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 95 | Gags (inflatable) | no | top | 0 |
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| 96 | Gags (phallic) | no | top | 0 |
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| 97 | Gags (rubber) | no | top | 0 |
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| 98 | Gags (tape) | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 99 | Gas masks | no | top | 0 |
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| 100 | Gates of Hell (male) | no | top | 0 |
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| 101 | Genital sex | yes | top | 5 |
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| 102 | Given away to another Dom (temp) | yes | bottom | 3 |
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| 103 | Given away to another Dom (perm) | no | top | 0 |
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| 104 | Golden showers | yes | top | 3 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 105 | Gun play | no | top | 0 |
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| 106 | Hairbrush spankings | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 107 | Hair pulling | yes | top | 5 | Pull it for a reason
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| 108 | Hand jobs (giving) | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 109 | Hand jobs (receiving) | yes | top | 5 |
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| 110 | Harems (serving w/other subs) | no | bottom | 5 |
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| 111 | Harnessing (leather) | no | bottom | 3 |
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| 112 | Harnessing (rope) | no | bottom | 3 |
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| 113 | Having food chosen for you | no | top | 0 |
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| 114 | Having clothing chosen for you | no | top | 0 |
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| 115 | Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 116 | Head (recv fellatio/cunnilingus) | yes | top | 5 |
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| 117 | High heel wearing | yes | top | 5 |
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| 118 | High heel worship | yes | top | 5 |
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| 119 | Homage with tongue (non-sexual) | no | top | 0 |
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| 120 | Hoods | no | top | 0 |
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| 121 | Hot oils (on genitals) | no | top | 3 |
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| 122 | Hot waxing | no | top | 0 |
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| 123 | Housework (doing) | no | top | 0 |
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| 124 | Human puppy dog | no | top | 0 | Kittycat, yes
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| 125 | Humiliation (private) | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 126 | Humiliation (public) | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 127 | Hypnotism | no | top | 0 |
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| 128 | Ice cubes | yes | top | 5 |
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| 129 | Immobilization | yes | bottom | 5 | I'll also order this
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| 130 | Infantilism | no | bottom | 0 |
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| 131 | Initiation rites | no | top | 0 |
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| 132 | Injections | no | top | 0 |
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| 133 | Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage | yes | top | 5 |
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| 134 | Interrogations | no | top | 0 |
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| 135 | Kidnaping | no | bottom | 4 |
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| 136 | Kneeling | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 137 | Knife play | yes | top | 4 |
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| 138 | Leather clothing | yes | top | 3 |
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| 139 | Leather restraints | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 140 | Lectures for misbehavior | yes | top | 5 |
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| 141 | Licking (non-sexual) | no | top | 0 |
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| 142 | Lingerie (wearing) | yes | top | 5 |
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| 143 | Manacles & Irons | yes | top | 0 |
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| 144 | Manicures (giving) | no | bottom | 0 |
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| 145 | Massage (giving) | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 146 | Massage (receiving) | yes | top | 5 |
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| 147 | Medical scenes | no | top | 0 |
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| 148 | Modeling for erotic photos | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 149 | Mouth bits | no | top | 0 |
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| 150 | Mummification | no | top | 0 |
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| 151 | Name change (for scene) | no | top | 0 |
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| 152 | Name change (legal, permanent) | no | top | 0 |
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| 153 | Nipple clamps | yes | top | 4 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 154 | Nipple rings (piercings) | no | top | 0 |
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| 155 | Nipple play/ | yes | top | 4 |
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| 156 | Nipple weights | no | top | 0 |
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| 157 | Oral/anal play (rimming) | yes | top | 4 |
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| 158 | Over-the-knee spanking | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 159 | Orgasm denial | no | denial | 3 |
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| 160 | Orgasm control | yes | top | 4 |
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| 161 | Outdoor scenes | yes | bottom | 3 |
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| 162 | Outdoor sex | yes | bottom | 4 |
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| 163 | Pain (mild) | yes | top | 5 |
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| 164 | Pain (medium) | yes | top | 5 |
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| 165 | Pain (severe) | yes | top | 5 |
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| 166 | Persona training (in scene) | no | top | 0 |
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| 167 | Personality modification (RL) | no | top | 0 |
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| 168 | Phone sex (serving Dom) | yes | bottom | 4 |
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| 169 | Phone sex (serving Dom's friends) | no | top | 0 |
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| 170 | Phone sex (commercial provider) | no | top | 0 |
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| 171 | Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) | no | top | 0 |
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| 172 | Piercing (permanent) | no | top | 0 |
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| 173 | Plastic surgery | no | top | 0 |
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| 174 | Prison scenes | no | top | 0 |
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| 175 | Prostitution (public pretense) | no | top | 3 |
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| 176 | Prostitution (actual) | no | top | 0 |
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| 177 | Pony slave | no | top | 0 |
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| 178 | Public exposure | yes | bottom | 3 |
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| 179 | Punishment Scene | yes | top | 4 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 180 | Pussy/cock whipping | yes | top | 4 |
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| 181 | Pussy worship | yes | bottom | 3 |
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| 182 | Riding crops | no | top | 5 |
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| 183 | Riding the | no | top | 0 |
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| 184 | Rituals | no | top | 0 |
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| 185 | Religious scenes | no | top | 0 |
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| 186 | Restrictive rules on behavior | yes | bottom | 5 | I won't go easy
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| 187 | Rubber/latex clothing | no | top | 3 |
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| 188 | Rope body harness | no | bottom | 4 |
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| 189 | Saran wrapping | no | top | 0 |
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| 190 | Scarification | no | top | 0 |
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| 191 | Scratching - getting | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 192 | Scratching - giving | yes | top | 5 |
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| 193 | Sensory deprivation | yes | top | 5 |
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| 194 | Serving | yes | bottom | 3 |
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| 195 | Serving as art | no | top | 0 |
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| 196 | Serving as ashtray | yes | top | 4 | I smoke a lot, and never seem to have enough ashtrays.
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| 197 | Serving as furniture | yes | bottom | 3 |
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| 198 | Serving as a maid | no | top | 0 |
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| 199 | Serving as toilet (urine) | no | top | 0 |
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| 200 | Serving as toilet (feces) | no | top | 0 |
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| 201 | Serving as waitress/waiter | no | top | 2 |
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| 202 | Serving orally (sexual) | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 203 | Serving other doms (supervised) | yes | bottom | 4 |
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| 204 | Serving other doms (unsupervised) | no | bottom | 2 |
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| 205 | Sexual deprivation (short term) | no | top | 0 |
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| 206 | Sexual deprivation (long term) | no | top | 0 |
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| 207 | Shaving (body hair) | no | top | 0 |
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| 208 | Shaving (genital hair) | yes | top | 2 |
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| 209 | Shaving (head hair) | no | top | 0 |
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| 210 | Skinny-dipping | yes | top | 5 |
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| 211 | Sleep deprivation | no | top | 0 | I need my sleep. Fuck off.
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| 212 | Sleepsacks | no | top | 0 |
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| 213 | Slutty clothing (private) | yes | bottom | 4 |
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| 214 | Slutty clothing (public) | yes | bottom | 4 |
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| 215 | Spandex clothing | no | top | 0 |
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| 216 | Spanking | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 217 | Speech restrictions (when, what) | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 218 | Speculums (Anal) | no | top | 0 |
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| 219 | Speculums (vaginal) | no | top | 0 |
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| 220 | Spitting | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 221 | Spreader bars | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 222 | Standing in corner | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 223 | Stocks | no | top | 0 |
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| 224 | Straight jackets | no | top | 0 |
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| 225 | Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) | no | bottom | 5 |
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| 226 | Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) | no | bottom | 5 |
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| 227 | Strap-on-dildos (wearing) | no | top | 5 |
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| 228 | Strapping (full body beating) | no | top | 3 |
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| 229 | Suspension (upright) | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 230 | Suspension (inverted) | no | top | 0 |
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| 231 | Suspension (horizontal) | yes | bottom | 3 |
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| 232 | Supplying new partners for Dom | no | top | 0 |
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| 233 | Swallowing feces | no | top | 0 |
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| 234 | Swallowing semen | yes | bottom | 5 |
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| 235 | Swallowing urine | yes | bottom | 2 |
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| 236 | Swapping (with one other couple) | yes | bottom | 3 |
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| 237 | Swinging (multiple couples) | yes | bottom | 4 |
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| 238 | Tampon Training (in ass) | no | top | 0 |
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| 239 | Tattooing | no | top | 0 |
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| 240 | Teasing | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 241 | TENS Unit (electrical toy) | no | top | 0 |
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| 242 | Thumbcuffs (metal) | no | bottom | 5 |
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| 243 | Tickling | yes | top | 3 |
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| 244 | Triple penetration | no | top | 4 |
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| 245 | Urethral Sounds (metal rods) | no | top | 0 |
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| 246 | Uniforms | no | top | 3 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 247 | Including others | yes | top | 4 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 248 | Vaginal dildo | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 249 | Verbal humiliation | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 250 | Vibrator on genitals | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 251 | Violet Wand (electrical toy) | no | top | 0 |
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| 252 | Voyeurism (watching others) | yes | top | 4 |
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| 253 | Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) | no | top | 2 |
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| 254 | Video (watching others) | no | top | 4 |
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| 255 | Video (recordings of you) | no | top | 5 |
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| 256 | Water torture | no | top | 0 |
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| 257 | Waxing (hair removal) | yes | top | 2 |
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| 258 | Wearing symbolic jewelry | no | top | 0 |
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| 259 | Weight gain (forced) | no | top | 0 |
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| 260 | Weight loss (forced) | no | top | 0 |
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| 261 | Whipping | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 262 | Wooden paddles | yes | top | 5 | I'll bottom for this as well
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| 263 | Wrestling | no | top | 0 | |